We have no lapdance here, like in US.
Me, by myself, I don't understand the chance to stay with a woman making me a lapdance, getting me hot and with no chance to touch her.
In Recoleta, we hace some places, called in spanish cabaret, breca, cabarulo ( the last two worlds are slang ), that you can go there and have a drink, see women dancing, and also you have the chance to invite a lady with a drink, and to chat with her, and in most of the cases, touch her and kiss her.
You can also arrange with her, to go out with her and go to a motel.
In Recoleta the best choice for that is MADAJOS.
There is also a well known called COCODRILO, 5 minutes by taxi.
I'm not use to go to this places.
It is always cheaper and easier to choose a lady by internet, and visiting or calling her to you place.
It is cheaper, more quite, and also if you can double check with the foros, this are, in my opinion the best choice.